30
years have passed by since the beginning of that horrific journey so long ago.
There
are times that I go over in my mind what would drive a nice girl into such a
damaging relationship. And I wonder what kept me there for so long. I never
really come up with the “right” answer, but I am very grateful that I left when
I did.
I
have a life now filled with hope and promise… two things that were lacking in
that life of violence and abuse.
I
have a loving husband and beautiful sons who bring great joy to my life.
I’ve
also graduated from college and am embarking a great occupational adventure.
And
I don’t have to worry about being berated, belittled, or beaten any day. Ever.
I
think about those women in the throes of abusive relationships, and if I thought
I could save them all, I would try. For now, all I can do is write my blog and
hope that someone who is hurting sees it, reads it, and realizes that hope is
in their reach.
All
it takes is one step.
